“No”

I promise I’m still here…

I’ve been super busy with church, school, wedding, leading worship at few places around little rock, etc. hopefully things will slow down soon..

I remember a time, back in college, when I use to brag about how busy I was…whether it was the amount of papers I had to do…the amount of retreats I was leading…the late nights…early mornings…no time to sleep…no time to eat…(well maybe not that one)…i was just stressed!

but i boasted about it…it was like i wanted to be busy…so that others would think i was busy…(doesn’t make since i know)

halfway through my senior year of college, my life had become so busy that i noticed it was taking a toll on my relationships with people…the joy i once felt from building relationships and doing ministry was gone…so i tried out a new word…it was something I had learned at a really young age but somehow forgot about it…instead of always saying “yes”…i said “no”

the amount of freedom and the release of stress that came when I first told someone “no” was indescribable…so from then on I made a conscience effort to try to balance my life…

“start small…go deep”

don’t do everything…you can’t…focus on a few things…do them well…

(i say all these things as I just talked about how busy i’ve been lately…)

what do you do to keep from overworking?
how do you balance your life?
do you have a problem with saying “no”?

Baseball Pics

Kim and I got to go to a Travelers game tonight with some friends…
here are some pics…

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our way cool printed your own baseball tickets!
(chris and jess are in the background…they came too)

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kim was really excited! (if you can’t tell)

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behind home plate…

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our seats…(i blended two photos here to get the sky to pop a little more)…you can sort of see justin and hallie on the end…they came with us as well…

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apparently “the yard” is where the party’s at (if you’re a kid) when you go to a travs game…

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we had a blast tonight…